Coming home…..
Sadly and with heavy hearts
we have had to end our around the world journey 4 months early. Sometimes, we have learned, our plan is not
God’s plan, this is one of those times.
Although we had a year lease on our house in place prior to leaving things
happen that are not in our control and without the rental income travelling
longer is not possible.
We are certainly not ready to
come home and disappointed that we will not see more countries in Europe,
Thailand and Mexico as was planned. But
the biggest regret of all is not celebrating the birth of Joy & Michael’s
baby with them in London. We accept
God’s will as hard as it is.
Years ago when we originally
planned this trip we decided seeing 12 countries in 12 months would be an
achievable goal, ironically we did travel to 12 countries, only in 8 months
instead of 12.
Here is a summary of what
this adventure entailed:
12 countries - El Salvador, Costa Rica, Peru, South Africa,
Zimbabwe, Malawi, Uganda, Egypt, Jordan, Israel, Turkey & Greece
9 Oceans/Seas - Pacific Ocean, Indian Ocean, Dead Sea, Sea of
Galilee, Red Sea, Sea of Maramar, Black Sea, Agean Sea, Mediterranean
4 Continents – Central & South America, Africa, Asia, Europe
22 Flights - 60 hours in airplanes
230 days - 46 different beds, 5 overnight buses & 1
overnight ferry
Accommodation - Hostels, Hotels, Home-stays with Couch Surfing,
Servas, Rotary & Friends, House & Apartment rentals, and Lodges
8000+ photos and hundreds of video clips
53 degrees hottest temperature in Jordan
11,000 feet elevation in Peru
400 metres below sea level(lowest spot on earth) in Jericho
Biggest city was Cairo, Egypt
at 25 million
Our family dream to…..”travel
around the World in 2012 to see God’s creation, connect with family heritage,
positively impact the world, experience different cultures and share the spirit
of Christ with others” came true except connecting with family which I guess
will have to wait for another time.
Many
of our goals were achieved, we were thrilled to have met both our sponsored
children Carla in El Salvador and Oziyasi in Malawi. Spending the day with them, their families
and community was so special. Although
we did not get to do WWOOFing(google it) in Brazil as was planned we loved the
extra time we spent in Peru instead. Our
involvement with various missions’ projects kept us busy and was very
fulfilling although there is always the feeling of wanting to do more. The need worldwide is so incredible that we
really only scratched the surface on what we as a family can accomplish with a
little more effort. Cuddling and loving orphans in
3 different countries and joining an amazing team from Vernon in Zimbabwe
proved to be an intense challenge not only physically but mentally as
well. Teaching at the Kyabirwa Primary School in Uganda was incredibly rewarding as we bonded with many of the students that were so eager to learn. We enjoyed numerous unique
experiences and met some of the world’s nicest people, many of whom will be
lifelong friends. We certainly stayed
in Egypt a lot longer than anticipated and are so grateful to Rod & Susan and all the families
who welcomed us into their homes.
As
a family we created a Top Twenty-five list of special memories (in chronological
order):
1. Meeting sponsored
children – El Salvador and Malawi
2. Becoming a family
of 5 when Luis joined us – Costa Rica
3. Montezuma Falls –
Costa Rica
4. Natural Hot
Springs & ziplining – Lafortuna, Costa Rica
5. Sand boarding in
Huacachina – Peru
6. Climbing Machu
Picchu - Peru
7. Floating Reed
Islands on Lake Titicaca – Peru
8. 2 Safari’s –
South Africa, Zimbabwe
9. Led Kid’s Camps
at remote villages – Zimbabwe
10. Riding Elephants
- Zimbabwe
11. Teaching English,
Math & PE – Uganda
12. Quading in the
rain - Uganda
13. Meeting ‘third
culture kids’ and developing friendships – Egypt
14. Riding a camel –
Egypt
15. Seeing ancient Pyramids, Ruins,
Tombs, Churches – Egypt
16. Meeting &
dancing on stage with American Idol Stars in concert - Cairo Opera House, Egypt
17. Floating in the
Dead Sea – Jordan
18. Swimming in Sea
of Galilee – Israel
19. Eating authentic,
traditional meals with local families in every country
20. Travelling with the “Aussies” Zachest Family – Turkey
21. Pamukkale calcium rich pools – Turkey
22. Pasakoy Village(Circumcision Party) – Turkey
23. Melissani and Dogarati Caves – Kefalonia Island, Greece
24. Sleeping on the beach for 3 nights – Katelios, Greece
25. Helping to excavate a turtles nest, watching Loggerhead turtles in the harbour, saving 7 hatchlings – Kefalonia Island, Greece
20. Travelling with the “Aussies” Zachest Family – Turkey
21. Pamukkale calcium rich pools – Turkey
22. Pasakoy Village(Circumcision Party) – Turkey
23. Melissani and Dogarati Caves – Kefalonia Island, Greece
24. Sleeping on the beach for 3 nights – Katelios, Greece
25. Helping to excavate a turtles nest, watching Loggerhead turtles in the harbour, saving 7 hatchlings – Kefalonia Island, Greece
Each birthday celebration was
unique and fun:
JC - Cape Town, South Africa
(held the Rugby World Cup trophy)
Shelley - Vic Falls, Africa
(saw a hippo on our front yard)
Landon – Cairo, Egypt (rode a
camel)
Tianna - Kefalonia Island,
Greece (saved some turtles)
The best surprise of all was
the friendliness of the countries we were warned not to go to such as El
Salvador, Peru, South Africa, Zimbabwe, Malawi, Uganda, Egypt, Israel & Jordan. Not only were the people fantastic but we
felt completely safe the entire time we were in these countries.
I think we all changed....Landon physically since he grew 4.5 inches, 3 shoe sizes and his voice deepened....we have a renewed appreciation for where we live, our home, even our government. We truly are blessed to be living in Canada and even the things we take for granted like hot water, drinkable water, flush toilets (a toilet seat!), a roof over our heads and a comfortable bed all take on a new meaning when you return home. The projects I couldn't wait to do when we got back like replacing our kitchen cupboards and counter tops suddenly didn't seem all that important. There are people to help and bigger issues to focus on which are more important than a new kitchen!
I think we all changed....Landon physically since he grew 4.5 inches, 3 shoe sizes and his voice deepened....we have a renewed appreciation for where we live, our home, even our government. We truly are blessed to be living in Canada and even the things we take for granted like hot water, drinkable water, flush toilets (a toilet seat!), a roof over our heads and a comfortable bed all take on a new meaning when you return home. The projects I couldn't wait to do when we got back like replacing our kitchen cupboards and counter tops suddenly didn't seem all that important. There are people to help and bigger issues to focus on which are more important than a new kitchen!
While writing the blog I
would sometimes have trouble describing places and experiences. Words just didn’t do it justice and then
Landon made up some words;
FUNDEMENDOMUNDO and
AMAZZZAZING
These words summarize how we
feel about our “almost a year away”.
JC's perspective on coming home!
After spending the morning looking at flights and ways of traveling from Athen’s to St. Martin where I was going to jump straight back into working in the health and vitality industry, I was all of a sudden succumbed by emotion of being away from my family whom I was together with the last 8 months for 24hours each day. This was different from my usual working away from home, although not without challenges. Our family had grown in a way that I am not sure could have been accomplished in any other way.
Landon was fully into his puberty stage of life, and from my men’s group studies in the past I knew the importance of having a father and other mentors, over the next 12 months as a foundation to the success and leadership of his adult life.
Tianna, had matured so much as well and our relationship had evolved in a way that I saw her beginning her blossom into the woman that she would become someday in the future, and was excited to not miss a moment in her journey either. Shelley of course was a pillar of strength, that although stood behind my decision would be left on her own for a few months to deal with kids, and the getting back in to life emerged now as a new person from our experiences of traveling for so long.
Returning to my family I was on the verge of tears from my thoughts and meeting Tianna on the trail down to the beach began the constant flow of tears that would follow over the next few days. Returning to the apartment with her to see Landon and Shelley continued that flow, however we continued to press on with preparations for the day’s events.
Throughout the day I had some very deep and openhearted discussions with all three members of my family, however it wasn’t until that evening, when I returned with food for dinner that I was met with a tearful son and wife sitting on the couch. My first thought was that they had a break down, however it was quickly revealed to me that Landon did not want me to be away from our family and was immediately overcome with emotion during his explanation of it.
As a father it was a no brainer decision that I know I will never regret. Without hesitation I immediately changed my plans and confirmed with him that I would return with the family to Vernon and begin finding a way to attract clients to my training business again.
My return flight was a milk run to say the least: from Athens to Belgrade Serbia, to Frankfurt, Vancouver and then home…each with overnight stay attached to it.
Flying to Serbia, I met Vladimir, a Greek federal economic developer, traveling to meet his Serbian wife who taught at the University in Athens and was visiting her parents in Belgrade for the weekend. Our discussions, as were common on our journey, were deep and meaningful exploring different topics from world and our own nations current state of economies, to religion/spirituality, people, cultures and communities, ending with the importance of friends and family, whom he revealed his wife was now one month pregnant.
Vladimir continued to offer me advice for my overnight stay in Belgrade, including helping me find the correct bus to take to downtown while confirming the price and leaving me with two phone numbers to call should I require further assistance from him. After finding a hostel and relaxing to an uneventful evening I ventured out into the city to find some food for breakfast and walking the city in the daylight prior to catching the bus to return to the airport.
Arriving in Frankfurt, I immediately hopped on a train that took me down the Rine River into the lush and festive Rine Valley of small communities. It happened to be wine season and each community had different festival events to celebrate the rewards of this years harvest. Meeting up with my couch surfing host was a challenge as I could not get the sim card to activate in my phone and my constant requests to borrow a phone were turned down with people trying to leave the train station or who didn’t have any talk time left on their cel. Finally I was able to meet a man from Africa, who had lived in Frankfurt for 20 years, to assist me. He went above and beyond in his efforts to help…in true African style!!
Attending the wine festival where I enjoyed wine and beer of course with an array of local food and music amongst hundreds dressed up in traditional German attire was fun.
The trip I believe hit every measure of our emotions at some point in time. Would I risk it all again…of course, as the few moments of true human happiness and bliss shared with my family and so many others in different parts of the world were all too brief. The sheer focus it takes to keep the everyday tasks for life moving forward, you can’t afford for the little things to distract you. Travelling is an obsession I guess, however those who don't would never understand why.
In today’s day and age, in our gadget techno world it is so easy to stay in the rut and confines of safety and comforts watching “Reality TV” to live out our dreams. There are few opportunities to return to a base level, ultimately one of life and death…as it is a dangerous game to live out there, yet it wouldn’t be worth playing if it weren’t. The intensity and flavors of our journey are not easily described; I know from already attempting to account experiences. I anticipate that in the days and months to come I will cherish the memories of those brief moments as something very precious, something to grasp in a quiet moment, that no one can ever take away from me.
The success of our travels was not luck, rather truly by having the hand of God with us in so many instances. The passing resemblance of the Good Samaritan story in the Bible parable was upon us as well…maybe they are two in the same?? There lies the difference between compassion and obligation. I found on countless occasions that people acting out of the kindness of their hearts outside of the commercial world was beyond what I have ever experienced in my life. More than we Canadians provide, even though we are globally recognized as being nice and hospitable people as a nation, is not even close to what we experienced with those that have “nothing”. It leaves me feeling ashamed that so many Samaritans, who showed us compassion and kindness, were under no obligation and did not enter thoughts of how to be reimbursed. The question that I ponder then is what do they have to gain? The fact is I think they would have been justified to just pass on by or simply be polite. If we cannot be compassionate then what can we ever be? Somewhere we have lost sight as to what is truly important….no summit is ever greater than that of a compassionate life.
Planning and family teamwork only reduces risk, we as a family returned unscathed and for that I feel truly blessed. I hope that I can honor those who were compassionate and helped us without obligation by being forever humble, not triumphant and forgetting the lessons learned from our experiences. Our journey was a great one, not for accomplishing our goal of eight years, not for breaking any records…but for the memories of it that will continue to grow richer each day from here forth. I think the best memories mature over time, mellowing in the mind from the details of some of the conversations, or rough times that stressed us. For eight months I enjoyed the privilege of spending quality time with my family and for that I am eternally grateful…that alone is worth a thousand successes!!


